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My first relationship just ended. How can I expect to find someone else when it took 15 years to find her? | Leading questions

My first relationship just ended. How can I expect to find someone else when it took 15 years to find her? | Leading questions

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To stay open-hearted and optimistic, you need hope, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith . That’s not the same as expectation Read more Leading questions I’m nearly 30 and my first serious relationship just ended a month ago. It lasted eight months, she was my first girlfriend and first kiss, etc. She broke up with me in a very kind and respectful way, and I have been … OK, I guess. The thing is, everyone has been saying to me, “But you must feel so much more confident now.” I don’t. My self-esteem and confidence wasn’t exactly soaring before I met her, but now I feel even less so. It just feels like most people are less tolerant or accepting of my shortcomings. Continue reading...

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